Encouragement for people who want to live AND work in their passion while BALANCED within REALITY.
Monday, January 20, 2014
Martin Luther King Jr. 9 Inspirational Wallpapers & 25+ quotes
Wednesday, January 15, 2014
Enjoying the moment at hand
01.15.14 some moments seem longer and than others. Somedays seem to pass bye within the blink of an eye.
Here's to pausing, unplugging, and enjoying a moment in the day: a sunrise, a gentle breeze, a cloud passing over head, a bird singing, a refreshing rain, the warmth of a fire, a saltwater bath, a drink, a meal with a friend, solitude, a sunset, a good night story or day closing night cap....
good day & good night.
Tuesday, January 14, 2014
The "Happiness" and Self-Help Industry is a multi-million dollar business By Guest Writer Gabe Cabagbag!
I recently wrote a post titled,<a href="http://trevordrinen.wordpress.com/2014/01/14/lost-in-my-mind-self-help-happiness-vs-sadness/"> Lost In my mind: Self-help, Happiness vs Sadness</a>.
The following was taken from a conversation with a friend Gabe Cabagbag.
Realizing how much I define things through cultural translations and generational expectations (said / unsaid)
I think it's perfectly healthy to feel all aspects of emotions, especially during major season changes in your life. Like everything else in life, it's about a balance.
Grieving when you're sad, being pissed off when something bad happens- all emotions that make us human- are necessary in dealing with real-life situations.
I personally think the notion of happiness is very subjective. If you continually have the need to keep seeking it out, you will never find it.
Much like success, how does one define being "successful"? Is it in the achievements they have? The material possessions they own? Or is it in the meaningful relationships they have with others. Or maybe their own self-worth and contentment in their lives.
The "happiness" and self-help industry is a multi-million dollar business and it's no surprise that we constantly see advertisements, books, and seminars everywhere aiming to make us feel better about ourselves.
I think if we are able to just deal with stressful situations in a positive way and find inner peace we are able to live healthy, happy lives.
Keep it simple. Do what you love. Believe in what you do. Love on others.
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Monday, January 13, 2014
Self Help or Cultural Happiness
Sunday, January 12, 2014
Enjoying the moment
01.12.14
This morning I decided to take the kids out for breakfast at the local market accompanied by a time of watching some locals carve the surf off flat island.
Why?
I was up.
Plus, it that's how I roll once in a while.
And as parents of three the lack of sleep is a somewhat common thing between sleepovers, sporting events and work. So, I concluded it might be nice thing to let my wife have a little extra rest and some peaceful and quite (truth be told she's a night owl and I'm dawn patrol). So, off to the market we rolled picking up a muffin, oat bars, and a few morning fruits. Then to enjoy watching a few guys glide upon the waves of liquid.
The snap/pic below was captured as I settled upon a rock and silently enjoyed the morning watching my kids explore, discover, and get soaked by a wave now / then.
Here's to life and the daily journeys it holds.
Saturday, January 11, 2014
Pure laughter, where does it go?
Thursday, January 9, 2014
STOP THE LIP SERVICE! Genuinely Start Adding Value To Others!
01.09.14 Everyday there are people that need to be inspired, encouraged, and value needs to be added to them. Not to the degree of babying an adult or coddling someone that is not doing their job. But on the side of genuinely adding value to a few individuals through out the day.
Where can you start?
Start with believing in yourself, your family, and then move to your friends and coworkers.
Be genuine!
If you can't find anyway to add value to someone it's probably best to keep you mouth shut and simply smile.
Value that contains BS, feels like BS, and is received as BS. Truth be told every one of us has experienced the facade or masquerade of un-genuine statements.
One of my past employers would attempt to encourage and value to individual's during a staff meetings. It's a great concept or idea; however, it came across as somewhat emotional, sappy, and very un-genuine. At the end of the day employees feel belittled vs appreciated or valued.
Bottom line: in order to add value to someone you must be genuine!
I for one am tired and sickened by the facade and sappy masquerading dance that is played.
Where can you start if you honestly struggle with genuinely adding value to others? (Some people do as they've played the game so long)
Start small but start now!
In other words start by finding value in the moment: a sunset, a nice meal, running water, or a flushing toilet! As you start to find value in the moment you'll be that much closer to being able to see the potential and value in others.




