Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Dealing with discouragement over a few minor things



This morning I found myself dealing with discouragment over a few minor things.

9 Moses reported this to the Israelites, but they did not listen to him because of their discouragement and harsh labor. 10 Then the LORD said to Moses, 11 “Go, tell Pharaoh king of Egypt to let the Israelites go out of his country.” 12 But Moses said to the LORD, “If the Israelites will not listen to me, why would Pharaoh listen to me, since I speak with faltering lips?” Exodus 6:9-12 NASB

OBSERVATION
Man, if I was an Israelite under the oppression of Egypt for YEARS... ya, I’d be discouraged.... maybe even to the point of serve depression!  Hmm... discouragement seems to be a disease unique to human beings -- especially, those who have been oppressed for an extended period of time like the Israelites in Exodus 6.... eventually everyone gets it - even those doing good things. I’ve battled with various levels of discouragement within my life and in my career.  
Okay let’s take things back to the text and ask some questions: First, what are some things that have caused discouragement here in Exodus 6 and in my life?
Cause - Oppression: When others exercise their authority in a burdensome, cruel, or unjust manner I’m candidate to experience discouragement. For me this state of being oppressed, and the feeling of being heavily burdened, mentally or physically, by troubles, adverse conditions, and anxiety.
Cause - Fatigue: When I’m oppressed, I’m a prime candidate to be infected with discouragement. My defenses are lowered and things can seem bleaker than they really are. This often occurs when I’m halfway through a major project and I’m tired.
Cause - Frustration: When unfinished tasks pile up, it's natural to feel overwhelmed. And when trivial matters or the unexpected interrupt me and prevent me from accomplishing what I really need to do, my frustration can easily produce discouragement.
Cause - Failure: Sometimes, my best laid plans fall apart -- the project collapses -- the deal falls through -- no one shows up to the event. How do I react? Self-pity? Blame others? As one man said, "Just when I think I can makes ends meet -- somebody moves the ends! That's discouraging!
Cause - Fear: Fear is behind more discouragement than I'd like to admit. The fear of criticism (What will they think?); the fear of responsibility (What if I can't handle this?); and the fear of failure (What if I blow it?) can cause a major onset of the blues.
What are some cures for discouragement?

APPLICATION 
I’ve learned through moments and seasons of discouragement that something constructive comes and often God is trying to get my attention.  Some cures for discouragement?
A) Be still and know He is God.  God alone is the provider of peace and rest. If I need a break -- I need to take one! I’m more effective when I return to work. If I’m burning the candle at both ends, I’m not as bright as I think! 
B) Sometimes I need to reorganize my life - discouragement doesn't necessarily mean I’m doing the wrong thing. It may just be that I’m doing the right thing in the wrong way. 
C) Know myself / be honest with myself.  My personality requires me to try a new approach - shake things up a little. 

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